Do not be born beautiful, but be born ... cunning and use psychological tricks to make a man fall in love with you head over heels and forever lose his head from your attractiveness.
And the attractiveness of a woman, as you know, is not in her luxurious forms, impeccably regular facial features or infinitely long legs.
Female attractiveness is more than just physical attractiveness. This is the ability to file oneself correctly, as well as use some tricks to hook a man with a further prospect for a long-term relationship or even marriage.
How to drive a man crazy
Are you starting to feel that your man is losing interest in you? Sometimes he ignores your calls and messages? How attentive is he with you?
Or do you often ask yourself if he is still in love with you or has lost interest in you?
So, how to make a man lose his head? Of course, we are talking about madness in a good sense of the word.
The basic rule: do not pretend to be who you essentially are not. And, of course, there are some psychological tricks that will help women to remain always loved and desired.
Pay attention to the following points, which even psychologists talk about:
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1. Always be yourself
The first and most important rule is not to seem like who you are not.
It may be a clichéd cliché, but if this advice still works, then perhaps it is the truest, isn't it?
Be yourself.
In any case, if you want your man to not lose interest in you, you must fully accept yourself as you are, and be this person not only when you are near him, but in general in life.
Men are quite simple creatures, somewhat primitive, but by no means stupid. Therefore, they can easily recognize the simulated behavior and feel the lie.
Do not pretend to try on other people's masks. You do not need to try to pretend to be someone who, in fact, you are not, do not need to worry about if you have any shortcomings, because everyone has them!
Do not be afraid to show him your true self, sometimes even discover some negative aspects of your character. First, your man will probably prefer clarity and honesty. And secondly, it is quite possible that those features that seem to you to be shortcomings will become a dignity and your highlight for him.
In addition, as your relationship develops, your true character traits will certainly show up over time. So why not show them at the very beginning?
2. be confident
According to male psychology, female confidence in itself is very attractive.
Are you a woman who is easy to drive into the paint and who, embarrassed, blushes?
Or do you proudly show your talent when, for example, people ask you to sing? Are you able to confidently withstand anyone’s gaze, or when you meet, you hide behind the back of another person and lower your eyes?
If so, then you have low self-esteem, and it is natural that your man may lose interest in you.
We all know that it’s not so easy to be confident in yourself, when by nature you are a rather reserved and shy person. But being confident does not necessarily mean that you need to communicate with people you are not familiar with, or that you must laugh out loud to always be the center of attention.
This is mainly about a sense of self-confidence. When a man sees that you are comfortable being who you are, that you treat yourself with respect, your man will be proud of you.
He will lose his head again and again and will make additional efforts to conquer you and be proud that you are his woman.
3. Always stay true to yourself, your principles and beliefs
If you obey your man in everything just to avoid quarrels or useless clarification of relations with him, this way you will not force yourself to respect.
Do you think that he will treat you with respect only because you always agree on everything and let him do whatever he pleases?
By doing so, you are not exposing yourself in the best light.
When expressing your opinion, do not be afraid to upset him or thereby push him away from you. First, he will take for granted that you must always agree with him in everything.
Secondly, you let him get used to the idea that your goal is to agree with him whenever you have a disagreement. Because of this, he will not appreciate you and reckon with your opinion.
Stick to your beliefs and opinions. Show your man that you have your own mind, concepts, standards, and ideas about life.
4. be strong, but do not go too far
When we say "strong personality", we do not mean an impudent or imperious person.
Despite the fact that many men like to be surrounded by strong women, too often to show their domineering character is not recommended.
Perhaps you demand too much from him, and he simply begins to feel that he is losing his voice and the ability to make decisions in your relationship.
If there is something that men secretly hate, then this is definitely total control on the part of the woman.
All the same, remember that, as a rule, the main thing in a relationship is a man. Therefore, it is he who usually needs to control some things and make important decisions.
Remember that the man is the head, and the height that supports this head.
However, even the strongest man needs a break from time to time when he can hand over the reins of power to his partner.
If he is sure that there is a woman nearby who can take on some of the problems, he will love you even more and treat you as one of the most important and special people in his life.
Periodically show your man what you want. But do it subtly and beautifully, let him know that you can also be as strong as he is, however, do not overdo your desire to be a strong woman.
5. Be kind and understanding.
If there is something that a man wants, first of all, to see in his woman, these are not outright outfits, high heels or your abilities in bed. Although all this, of course, also matters.
However, the most important quality in a woman is her kindness.
Do not believe the one who says that kindness and decency are not in fashion today, and nobody needs a kind woman. These qualities have always been and remain very sought after by men when choosing a life partner.
When you radiate kindness, it attracts men like a magnet.
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Mind and kindness have always been and will be held in high esteem. Your man will be proud that next to him is a woman endowed with these qualities.
6. Take care of yourself
The main mistake that most women make in relationships with men is that they begin to pay more attention to their partner than to themselves.
As a result, a man considers himself the most important thing in a woman’s life, and such attention is taken for granted.
However, do not put someone's interests above your own, even if it is the interests of your loved one.
Sacrificing oneself is not the best way to conquer a man. Remember once and for all: no one will appreciate your sacrifice.
Thus, you do not allow your man to be aware of your value - he will not go crazy for someone he does not consider a person.
What to do and how to do the right thing?
Never and under no circumstances ignore your needs, do not put your needs below someone else's. Remember that you already give your man more than enough.
Take care and value yourself, and most importantly, love.
This does not necessarily mean that you should always look like a model, but do not forget to carefully care for your body and face.
It sounds very commonplace, but try to pay special attention to personal hygiene, take care of yourself, pay proper attention to yourself.
Take a bath daily, brush your teeth after each meal, monitor the condition of the skin, hair, teeth.
Remember that initially your man was attracted by your well-groomed appearance and beauty. Surely, when he first saw you, he was hooked by just that, and only then was your wonderful character.
If you start to look unattractive, he just might lose interest in you.
In fact, the psychology of men in relations with a woman is very easy to understand - they become simply obsessed (in the good sense of the word) when they notice that their woman is becoming more beautiful and attractive every day.
7. Maintain a balance in relationships
Stable long-term relationships are, as a rule, those relations in which couples understand each other very well, because they have common interests.
Common views, values and interests - this is really, it is important when it comes to strong and stable relations.
The main secret of happiness is balance in everything.
It is very important to work on this very balance in order to strengthen relations, make them strong and harmonious.
For example, if your man has low self-esteem, you should be the one who will contribute to raising his self-esteem. For example, if your partner is playing a musical instrument or painting, become his muse. If he is a dog lover or a cat man, you will love animals.
Try to fill the void in the relationship as much as possible.
8. Be passionate about what you love.
In the eyes of a man, a woman is especially attractive if she is passionately passionate about something.
Your passion, hobby, hobby, favorite job make you special for the opposite sex.
Male psychology is tripled in such a way that if a partner sees something unique and special in a woman, he wants to make her his own.
Therefore, you need to behave so that the man feels that you are special, and he would like to make you his forever.
If you play the instrument well, find an opportunity to play in front of it so that it sees and appreciates your skills.
If you are an artist, surprise him with how you depict him in a portrait. If you have a desire for something, do not show him that you are afraid to achieve your goals, no matter what.
If your man sees that you are passionately passionate about something, and that you strive to make yourself better, he will simply lose his head from such a woman.
The fact is that seeing a smart, purposeful woman with diverse interests in front of him, he will think that you are special and that he will never find someone better than you.
9. Use female tricks
Another significant mistake that women make in relationships is that they try too hard to attract and retain the attention of men.
Of course, writing your man a message with words of love is possible and even necessary. But do not overdo it: do not throw him messages about how much you love him. Do not shout about your feelings in every text message.
By the way, sometimes you can praise your man, but don’t act like he’s on a pedestal, and you worship him.
When you try too hard to show your admiration, it makes your man think that it is you who are losing his head from him, which, of course, is also not bad. But everything should be a measure.
Be subtle, cunning and somewhat pragmatic.
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10. Periodically become unavailable
Just because you are in a relationship does not mean that you must sacrifice your time and space in order to always be available to your partner.
In addition to him, you still have work, some duties and other personal matters.
A man is designed in such a way that he loses interest in a woman who is too accessible for him.
If you are always in front of your man, unfortunately, he may simply cease to appreciate you and your presence.
The advice will be: periodically go into the shadows.
Of course, this does not mean that you should not help your man when he really needs your support.
Just sometimes show him that you are also a busy person and you still have your own life and personal needs.
If you disappear for a while, believe me, a man will be interested in where you are, what you do, and he will want to spend as much time with you as possible.
11. Give him positive emotions
What memories do you keep the longest in your memory?
Most likely, these are special moments that gave you positive emotions. The keyword here is "special."
A little experiment:
Let's say you see two identical guys. The first is a great guy who invites you to dinner and to the movies, he has the right values, he seems a responsible person and a smart conversationalist.
The second one has all these qualities, but plus everything, it can give you interesting adventures, for example, it can suddenly stop in the middle of the street, swirl you in a dance and passionately kiss on the lips. Or in the middle of the night you will be awakened by the sounds of a serenade under the window.
Which of these two guys do you choose?
Surely the second guy. This choice is obvious because it was he who gave you unforgettable positive emotions, and you will definitely remember for a long time the unique, positive experience that he brought to your life.
The same applies to a man: he remembers for a long time the one who gives him a range of positive emotions.
In any case, the more positive emotions you give, the more valuable you become for your man.
12. Smile more often
The most banal, but perhaps effective advice is to smile. Smile as sincerely and as often as possible.
This is the best you can do. A smile attracts people to us, like a magnet. Who likes gloomy, angry and disgruntled people?
A smile is an easy way to show that you want to communicate with the outside world. A woman with a sincere smile on her lips always causes interest in the opposite sex. I want to be with her, I want to know her closer.
The easiest way to win men's hearts is to smile as often as possible.
13. Touch the object of your sympathy.
Do not neglect the power of simple touches. They are as important as words and deeds.
When you are near your man, touch your hand on his neck, neck, and arm. Believe me, your touch is sometimes a real aphrodisiac for a man.
The slightest touch can cause a storm of positive emotions, you can hear how quickly after your touch the heart of your partner beats.
14. Establish eye contact
In fact, many do not even look in the eye when they communicate.
Eye contact is really a very intimate moment, so it attracts the attention of guys.
This is not about a two-minute gaze, but about eye contact in everyday communication.
Believe me, a closer look is no less erotic thing than, say, a gentle accidental touch.
15. Do not be afraid to express your opinion
Each of us has our own opinion on this or that issue, but not everyone can express it.
Inability to express one’s point of view may appear due to self-doubt, fear of being misunderstood, ridiculed, or for a number of other reasons.
In any case, if you agree with everything that men say, just remember that in this way you risk losing interest for him.
Most men love women to challenge them. Your partner will definitely like it if the woman correctly and clearly expresses her opinion.
When a woman has her own point of view, and she clearly adheres to it, a man cannot resist such a woman.
This does not mean to be bitchy or specifically enter into a dispute with an opponent. Just be ready to defend your opinion, always express what you think.
16. Pay attention to details
It is generally accepted that women like it when a man pays attention to even the smallest details. The same applies to members of the opposite sex.
The man will appreciate that the woman remembered the dish that he adores, the name of his favorite football team, as well as some other details regarding his preferences.
Be sure to pay attention to what the man says. Try to surprise him on occasion with the fact that you have a great memory, and you always listen carefully.
17. Do not soar in the clouds
If you think that being “down to earth” is bad, you are mistaken. It turns out that this is one of the attractive qualities for a man when searching for his soulmate.
Unfortunately, the ladies in the clouds are not very popular among members of the opposite sex. But women who are somewhat mundane and firmly standing on their feet, on the contrary, are considered one of the most attractive for building serious relationships.
The harder you stand, the more chances you have to hook and hold the man.
18. Use your sense of humor as often as possible
A sense of humor is a wonderful and insanely attractive thing not only for a man, but also for a woman.
This trait somehow miraculously attracts others. When a woman shows that she has a wonderful sense of humor, the man immediately sets her apart from the crowd of others.
Therefore, do not be afraid to be funny at some point, be able to laugh at yourself, as well as at the current situation. Laugh, smile, make fun, periodically doing some stupid things. For example, if you stumbled and broke a heel, instead of bursting with curses, smile and joke.
When you calmly react with a smile to something, the man sees it. In his eyes, such a woman acquires special value.
Remember that a sense of humor is a quality that no one can resist, including a potential young man.
19. Be thankful for having
How often do you really feel grateful for what you have, for any little thing in life?
Do you thank God or other higher powers for the peaceful sky above your head, for the bright sun, for the bread on your table, for the shelter and for true friends?
When you daily feel a sense of gratitude for what you have, you radiate a positive, good energy that is very difficult not to notice. You cannot pass by such a woman.
A grateful attitude to life not only improves your own life and inner world, it is also a sure way to fall in love with a man.
Whatever happens in life, never respond negatively to negatively. Radiate the very positive emotions that all psychologists talk about.
If something bad happened in your life, try to disengage from the source of the negative: whether it is a person or circumstances, go away from this.
20. Always and in everything support your man
Love is, first of all, support. And also remember that behind the back of a successful man there is always a strong woman
Support your partner in grief and joy. If your man has problems at work, let him feel that you will always be there and support him with advice.
Show the man that you can be trusted, that you will not betray and do not abandon him in the most difficult period.
A true and reliable woman wants every real man. Become one for your partner, and he will forever lose your head.
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